Besides all the illusions that exist at the beginning of a relationship and that gradually disappear with the various difficult situations and deceptions of the couple's life together, at the beginning of their marriage both are too busy building and planning the future.
In the beginning they believe that they only need to prepare their house the way they desire, they are devoted to their careers, they have many dreams...
Then they think that a house near the beach is indispensable for the holidays, they start buying all the equipment for their kitchen, their garden, for camping, and any other necessities or hobbies.
At a certain point their income is satisfactory, their houses are perfect, their kids have grown somehow and don't depend so much on them, everything seems to be exactly as they desire, however, exactly at that point, they start having problems together.
What an irony! When everything is so perfect in their lives, exactly then all the problems arise...
Men start wanting to spend more time with their friends, feeling suffocated with their family, and hating to stay at home.
Women start hating the kitchen, remembering the days that they were free, and getting lost in many fantasies.
Then, the unavoidable happens: they find someone else.
Both of them, at the same time.
However, each one becomes shocked when they learn that their partner betrayed them, even though they have betrayed the other too...
When they look back they cannot understand how everything could come to this point...
Their marriage seemed to be so perfect! What happened to them? They were completely deluded for imagining that they had found their perfect match...
This is really very sad.
If you come to such point in your life, and especially when you have kids, this is very painful.
Don't think that a divorce is something "simple" only because it happens all the time in the crazy world where we live.
It provokes a trauma, and it has many bitter consequences that last for a long time.
Nothing is as sad in a person's life than to realize in the middle of the road that they made a very serious mistake for deciding to share their lives with the wrong person.
You have to avoid such a destiny.
But how? By being smart and predicting the future, learning beforehand everything about the personality of the person you love and intend to marry, and also, everything that is happening in their lives.
You only have to learn how to translate the meaning of your dreams according to the scientific method.
You don't even need to study the dream language so deeply if you only care about the dreams concerning the person you love, because they are the simplest ones.
I hope you'll be prudent and care about choosing the right person for you before it is too late.
Your life with the right person will be totally different, and you won't ever finish building your nest or preparing the future, because you'll always be alive and happy, wanting to improve and try different solutions, with passion and joy.