If you ask most men, they will probably say that what they do with their body during sex is more important than anything else.
While the physical side of having a big orgasm is really important; the mental side should not be overlooked.
Women are always a lot more verbal than men and this makes them respond to words in a way that most guys don't.
Talking dirty to her in the right way can be the difference between her having an orgasm and her faking one.
How to Talk Dirty The problem with talking dirty is that most guys make HUGE mistakes without even realizing.
Have you ever used a sexual swear word during an argument and seen her face contort in disgust? Even worse, has she ever suggested something that she wants to try in bed that you ignored or belittled? If the answer to these kinds of question is 'yes,' then you are making one thing clear in her mind: Her sexual side threatens you As you can imagine, this is NOT a good thing.
If you do this kind of thing, you can almost guarantee that next time you suggest anything other than the missionary position, she gets her revenge on you by refusing.
Talking dirty is a little similar to this, but instead of using her sexuality as a negative thing, you are making it clear that she is rewarded for acting in a sexual way.
Even if, you don't like her fantasy, telling her how much you like her sexual side will let her know that you like being with her when she is acting sexually and encourage her to be more sexual.
These rewards can be anything from a message the next day telling her how hot she was or having a sexual nickname that you use only when you are turned on.
How to Make Your Girlfriend More Sexual The key to making things hotter in the bedroom is to make sure that you are consistent with your attitude towards sex.
If sometimes you are timid and other times manly, it is pretty weird for the girl.
She is constantly looking for cues from your behavior as to how she should act around you and this gives her none.
The same goes for talking dirty during sex.
If the sex is slow and sensual and you suddenly start using the kind of hardcore language that would make an adult movie star blush, then it is probably going to confuse her (Occasionally though, you can have some fun with this to give her an emotional spike- women love emotions and a little unpredictability is always good!).
Basically, your words will either turn her on or completely kill the mood.
The key is to find out what your girlfriend uniquely likes and give that to her.
The key thing is that talking dirty is a form of communication and a way for her to find out what kind of guy you are.
Just make sure that she finds out you are a cool, sensuous lover and great sex will naturally follow.