Are you great with your friends and colleagues, but when you come face to face with a cute guy you simply clam up? Does your brain go round and round, but you just can't focus on a single word to say to him? And do you turn to useless mush if he smiles at you to boot? Sure facing that cute guy can be daunting.
Who hasn't faltered in front of a man we're so attracted to? Here are a few sure ways to steady you nerves and find your confidence again.
It can sure help if you look your best.
Even if you're just stepping out to go to the store, if you bump into that cute guy wearing tattered sweats and a stained shirt, you're not going to feel too great about yourself.
Revamp your wardrobe and make sure it reflects the real woman you are.
You might also want to take a look at your hairstyle and update it a bit.
When you look in the mirror and see that fabulous reflection, you'll smile and radiate confidence.
Now you won't feel so shaky in front of him.
But if you're still feeling tongue-tied when you meet him, try to have a few interesting questions on hand.
Not just a simple how are you, but something more relevant.
If you've been spotting him everyday as he heads out to jog in the park, ask him about that.
Or if you've noticed that he always has a guitar case when he leaves, ask him about the music he plays.
By asking him a question instead of trying to think of things to say, you're putting the ball in his court.
Guys love to talk about themselves and they certainly love to impress women.
Seeing just a hint of your interest will most likely set him off and he'll carry the conversation for a while.
You're confidence level will build up easy and quick.